Men don’t want to marry me because I’m single mother – Kaffy laments

Renowned Nigerian dancer Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau, known as Kaffy, expressed her frustration at men not wanting to marry her due to her status as a single mother of two. In a recent episode of the Honest Bunch podcast, Kaffy highlighted the challenges faced by single mothers in the dating world, questioning the stereotype that single mothers are less desirable partners.

She emphasized that being a single mother does not guarantee a failed marriage, citing the high divorce rates among couples without children. Kaffy, who divorced her husband in January 2022, stressed the importance of individual growth and destiny alignment in a marriage.

She also pointed out that many people who insist on marrying someone without children end up getting divorced. This candid discussion sheds light on the societal biases faced by single mothers in relationships.